My Two Homes Visual Custody Calendar
So a child can see which home they are in, and what is coming up
- Who it’s for
- Children (set up by a grown-up)
- Age range
- Ages 3–10 (set up by a parent)
- Formats
- PDF · Fillable PDF
$7.99
One-time purchase · instant digital download
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- US Letter and A4 included
- Fillable PDF versions
- Print as often as you like for your own household
An organizational tool. These templates help you plan and record. They are not legal, tax or financial advice, and nothing here replaces a court order, parenting plan, mediation or advice from a family-law attorney. If you have a court order, follow it.
Digital download. Nothing is shipped. Files are delivered digitally. Colors may vary slightly between screens and printers.
Personal, family use. Print as often as you like for your own household or households. Not for resale, redistribution, or use in classroom or clinical products.
About this resource
What it is
“When do I see Dad again?” is easier to answer with a calendar on the wall than with a date. This kit lets your child see which home they will be in, when they switch, and what is coming up — and because they color it in and place the stickers, it becomes theirs.
Nothing is pre-filled and no family structure is assumed. You choose a name and color for each home together on the “My Two Homes Key” page, then fill in the week from your own parenting plan.
Why it helps
- Replaces “how many more sleeps?” with something a child can point at.
- Clear sleepover (moon) and switch-day (arrow) markers mean fewer surprises on the day.
- Homes are marked by color and shape, so it still reads printed in black and white.
Topics
- Visual custody calendars
- Transition activities
What’s inside
- Parent instruction guide — set it up in ten minutes, plus the tips that make it stick
- Blank weekly, Monday-start weekly, Sunday-start weekly and monthly calendars
- “My Two Homes Key” — choose a name and a color for each home together
- Cut-out household labels (Mom’s House, Dad’s House, Home A/B, Grandma’s, Papa’s, blanks) and two door signs
- Cut-out activity icons in three sizes — school, birthday, holiday, sports, doctor, dentist, trip, sleepover, switch day and more
- Special Days sheet for birthdays, holidays and trips
- Two completed examples so you can see how it works
Files you receive
Visual Custody Calendar — US Letter
12 pages
Visual Custody Calendar — A4
12 pages
- Fillable PDF
Fillable calendar — US Letter
358 form fields
- Fillable PDF
Fillable calendar — A4
Start Here sheet
Printing and usage
- Print the key page first and pick names and colors with your child.
- Hang the weekly page at child height and do a thirty-second calendar check each morning.
- Laminate the page you use most and mark it with a dry-erase pen to reuse it indefinitely.
- Designed to be light on ink; reprint any page as often as you like.
Also available in a bundle
Buying more than one?
This resource is part of the bundles below, which work out cheaper than buying each product on its own.
BundleBundles
Kids’ Two Homes Toolkit
The visual custody calendar, feelings workbook, packing checklists and routine charts — all four children’s products together.
- Fillable PDF
$16.99View details
BundleBundles
Complete Family Bundle
Every Two Homes Together product — the four parent planners and the four children’s resources — in a single bundle.
- Fillable PDF
- Excel
$29.99View details
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